What qualities do you seek in a partner?
Posted on May 15th, 2007
by 
Kundan
Kundan
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for May 15, 2007:
First let me reveal who I am:
I am a vegetarian.
I am a non-smoker and non-drinker.
I am deeply spiritual but not religious, yet I am neither too spiritual nor too materialistic - I am balanced - I have a balance of materialism and spirituality within me.
I happen to believe that sex is an extremely beautiful thing, whether before marriage or after marriage, and I am okay with the idea of joyous sexual celebration.
I believe that true happiness lies within - I need nothing external to me - no person, place or thing - to be happy. I can be happy simply by choosing to be happy. There is no way to happiness - happiness is the way.
In answer to the question, What, in your view, makes life meaningful?, this is the answer I give:
In answer to the question, What is Love?,
this is the answer I give:
This is my definition of a romantic relationship:
On Romantic Relationships
I really like these songs:
I have read Communion with God , The Future of Love , and Busting Loose From the Money Game: Mind-Blowing Strategies for Changing the Rules of a Game You Can't Win
I know that I am wonderful, beautiful and adorable, as we all are.
Yet, I am willing to grow, like the wonderful flower that grows to become more beautiful with every moment.
Naturally, I also expect the partner I am with to also be a vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker, deeply spiritual but not religious, who have read or is willing to read the books I have mentioned, who deeply realizes that she is wonderful, yet is willing to grow...and....you get the idea, right?
I am a vegetarian.
I am a non-smoker and non-drinker.
I am deeply spiritual but not religious, yet I am neither too spiritual nor too materialistic - I am balanced - I have a balance of materialism and spirituality within me.
I happen to believe that sex is an extremely beautiful thing, whether before marriage or after marriage, and I am okay with the idea of joyous sexual celebration.
I believe that true happiness lies within - I need nothing external to me - no person, place or thing - to be happy. I can be happy simply by choosing to be happy. There is no way to happiness - happiness is the way.
In answer to the question, What, in your view, makes life meaningful?, this is the answer I give:
What, in your view, makes life meaningful?
In answer to the question, What is Love?,
this is the answer I give:
What is Love?
This is my definition of a romantic relationship:
On Romantic Relationships
I really like these songs:
I belong to me
My Favorite Love Song in the English Language
True Colors - Phil Collins and Lara Fabian
I have read Communion with God , The Future of Love , and Busting Loose From the Money Game: Mind-Blowing Strategies for Changing the Rules of a Game You Can't Win
I know that I am wonderful, beautiful and adorable, as we all are.
Yet, I am willing to grow, like the wonderful flower that grows to become more beautiful with every moment.
Naturally, I also expect the partner I am with to also be a vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker, deeply spiritual but not religious, who have read or is willing to read the books I have mentioned, who deeply realizes that she is wonderful, yet is willing to grow...and....you get the idea, right?
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love project
July 2008 
Thank you for giving of yourself. How beautifully expressed!
Yes, it's always nice to be on the same page with a partner, as I'm fortunate to be. But this doesn't mean you can't be on different paragraphs on that page. After all, differences can spice things up a bit.
: )
Wonderful post. Thank you.
K