What's your ideal annual income?
1million dollars. Actually, I don't really know.
What's your dream net worth?
100 millions dollars. I Don't know.
How much do you want in your financial freedom account?
100 million dollars

What's your curent monthly income goal?
$5000 a month
How much value do you intend to provide in return for that? How much is it worth in dollar amounts?
$35,000.
How much is it worth in terms of relational weatlh, spiritual wealth, physical wealth and mental wealth?
1. Relational Wealth - Peaceful, loving relationships, with everyone - family, friends, coworkers, and others,  including discovering and creating one's ideal relationship model of Intimate Love.
2. Spiritual Wealth - Direct, Moment to Moment Connection with Creative Source, or Who We Really Are and What We Find Meaningful.
3. Physical Wealth - Almost Perpetual Good health, and tools to help heal quickly and easily any time we get off-track.
4. Mental Wealth - Tools to help us reframe any situation so that we can become grateful for it, love it, bless it, rise above it, and choose another option.


Assess Your Relational Wealth

Do you spend quality time by yourself? Yes.
Do you enjoy your own company? Yes.
Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you? I do nowadays.
Please describe.

I kiss my own hands and arms every day. I caress the back of my neck. I give myself loving messages. I hug myself using energy work. I feel and connect to the Truth of Who I Really Am and Who Everyone is as much as I can.
What things do you do that contribute to your feeling joyous and fulfilled?
Listen to spiritual music, meditate, spend time on Gaia, connect with the Beloved within me, do the Oneness Meditation with as many people as I can every day.
Do you give yourself enough personal time? Yes.
Do you have a dream mate? No.(Does this question even apply to you? No. What's your idea of love?)
Would you know your dream mate if you met him/her? No How specifically would you know? N/A(Do these questions even apply to you? What's your idea of love?)
Who do you have to become to attract your dream mate – or your ideal relationship model?
Here's my ideal relationship model - have a sacred circle of loving friends, and a few lovers who truly understand what love really is - not filling a hole, but Experiencing, Seeing and Feeling Who I Really Am, and Who You Really Are, and as a result, feeling so much love, that that Love simply overflows and overwhelms us with the Ecstasy of Oneness, and at last Experiencing Union, and thus we naturally,automatically, start caressing each other, kissing each other from head to toe, hugging each other, including giving energetic hugs, until the I and You no longer exists, and there is Only Love.
If you have a mate already, do you make time for that relationship, just the two of you?
N/A
How is your relationship with your family, friends, relatives, co-workers, lovers and the Beloved Itself, or What you find truly Meaningful and Inspiring?
It's a very beautiful, deep relationship. There is no one who loves me more than the Beloved, and no one Whom I Love more than the Beloved. As for family, friends and coworker, it's getting more and more beautiful every day.

Assess Your Mental Wealth

How many books do you choose to read per month, per year?
I used to read a lot. Now I read less and less, preferring to learn from the Source Within, my Inner Wisdom, the Beloved.
Are you the master of your own emotions or do they master you?
Nowadays, I use a very effective prayer to master my emotions. It works:
"This need not be. This is not real. I be still and listen to the Voice of God. I be still and look at the sight of God. I be still and feel the space of God."
What kind of movies do you watch?
Deeply spiritual, inspiring, loving movies.
My favorites are 50 First Dates, What Dreams May Come, City of Angels, Don Juan DeMarco, Still Breathing, Blast from the Past, The Other Side of the Bed, Grace, Mr. President, and my favorite of favorites: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyGEEamz7ZM
How much time do you spend in from of the TV?
I don't watch TV though I do spend a bit of time watching the Daily Show these days.
How much time do you spend to evolve your beliefs to the next level, so that you can become an even bigger, deeper person?
Almost all the time.

Assess Your Physical Wealth

What's your dream weight, dress size, suit size, body composition?
I don't know.
How many days a week are you going to work out to stay in that shape?
Not much
How flexible do you want to be?
Very flexible.
How healthy do you intend to be?
Perfect Health
Do you have all the toys you want – that home you've always dreamed of, that car you've always wanted to drive?
No.
Where do you want to travel and explore? Do you want to drink fine wine in Paris? Visit the Great Pyramid in Egypt?
I'd love to see the Aurora Borealis, and Ayer's Rock. I'd love to go sky-diving and bungee jumping.

Assess Your Spiritual Wealth

Have you discovered that one on one connection with your creative source? How do you define that? Be as specific as you can.
Yes. How do I define that? It's actually indescribable. It's just this amazing Joy, Love, Peace, Light, Deep, Ecstatic Sense of Connection.

What inspires you? Inspiration comes from the Latin word inspiratu, meaning "divinely breathed into." Are you inspired by great music, reading the classics, taking a walk in nature or a jog on the beach? Long baths with candles and incense? An evening at the Four Seasons in Maui? Or by prayer and meditation? What would you want the divine to "breathe into" your life right now?

The Truth of Who We Really.
Really amazing short movies displaying the creative genius and love/kindness of people.
Rumi's poetry.
The Other Voice.
Doing the I am That I am meditation/chant/prayer with Larry, Michael, Bernie and Alley.

My Ego loves you, for several reasons.
But I myself would rather just Love You for no reason.
Beacause THAT is Unconditional Love.

Truth is timeless.
Get your attention off the economy and your problems, stop chasing the money, become continually grateful for all the goodness you currently have and consistently think, feel and act (going "3 for 3") on what you can give versus what you can get. You'll have true wealth and well-being in every area: relational, mental, physical, spiritual and yes, financial. And just like Branson and so many others who have figured it out, you'll have a lot of fun doing it.

~ James Ray

My Financial Wealth

I have a monthly passive cash flow of $5000/+, which is mine to keep and use however I please, and in return, I provide value to people that is worth $55,000 a month, while playing the Divine roles of being a teacher, healer, poet, author, speaker and flute-player.
How much is it worth in terms of relational wealth, spiritual wealth, physical wealth and mental wealth?
1. Relational Wealth - Peaceful, loving relationships, with everyone - family, friends, coworkers, and others, including discovering and creating one's ideal relationship model of Intimate Love.
2. Spiritual Wealth - Direct, Moment to Moment Connection with Creative Source, or Who We Really Are and What We Find Meaningful.
3. Physical Wealth - Almost Perpetual Good health, and tools to help heal quickly and easily any time we get off-track.
4. Mental Wealth - Tools to help us reframe any situation so that we can become grateful for it, love it, bless it, rise above it, and choose another option.

My Relational Wealth

My Ideal Relationship Model of Intimate Love

Have a sacred circle of loving friends and family, and a few lovers, including an open married partner, who truly understands what love really is - not filling a hole, but Experiencing, Seeing and Feeling Who I Really Am, and Who You Really Are, and as a result, feeling so much love, that that Love simply overflows and overwhelms us with the Ecstasy of Oneness, and at last Experiencing Union, and thus we naturally,automatically, start caressing each other, kissing each other from head to toe, hugging each other, including giving energetic hugs, until the I and You no longer exists, and there is Only Love.

My Physical Wealth

My body is perfect. I have gone sky-diving. I have found a way to travel and live around the world for free or almost free, experiencing mini-retirements in Italy, Argentina, Israel, France, India, Burma, Australia, China, New Zealand, Costa Rica, Thailand. And I have worked on the land in Italy, helping an Italian family make wine, and being paid for it, living with them with free rent, I have climbed the Eifel Tower in Paris, I have seen the Aurora Borealis, I have been to Angor Wat Temple in Cambodia, I have climbed the Great Wall of China, I have relished at the sights of the grandeur of the Taj Mahal and the Golden Temple, and I still remember the moment I jumped out of the aeroplane, my eyes wide-open, my arms spread broadly, my face breaking into a big smile, a great grin, and finally, an exhilarated laugh as I dived into the clouds, the clear blue sky above, filling me, my whole being, with such fabulous pleasure and delight, while my hand held her hand, sharing this moment with that cute lady I love so much, who inspires me to become grander than I already am, and whom I inspire in return.

Grown-ups love figures. When you tell them that you have made a new friend, they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you, "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies?" Instead, they demand: "How old is he? How many brothers has he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make?" Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, 1943, translated from French


I've lately begun to think about other questions we could be asking-questions that would help us know each other better, connect with one another, and discover the things we really want to know about each other. What do you want to contribute to the world? How do you spend your time? What is your passion? These are a few I've thought of. What question do you wish people would ask you ? How can you answer the question they are used to asking ( What do you do? ) with the answer to the question you would like to be asked?

Dear Me,

I love you.

I love you.

I love you sooooooooooo much!

I kiss you every day, from head to toe to infinity!!!!! :)

(((Hugs)))

I hug you so deeply, so hugely, so lovingly.

Oh God! I love you so much!

I caress you with tranquility, the energy of love, the space of God....

I bathe you in richness, your whole being filled to overflowing with soft touches, mango-fruity fragrance, the aroma of a deliciously cooked meal, the comfort of a good bed in a plush hotel, the adventure of travelling and meeting lovely folks from around the world, the pleasure and delight of serving others, the sound of loving words, the experience of love-making, and the beautiful act of sending love and being love.....

O my lovely self! How I love you!
O Heart! Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Nay! Thou art uncomparable! None can ever depict thy splendor, thy magnificence, thy comeliness!

I love you! I love you! I love you!

I love you! I love you! I love you until the end of time, until there is no more time.....
coz, coz, you see, my love for you is timeless, spaceless, everywhere and nowhere!

Much Love,

The Aspect of the Beloved currently named Kundan.

By John O'Donohue

May the touch of your skin
Register the beauty
Of the otherness
That surrounds you.

May your listening be attuned
To the deeper silence
Where sound is honed
To bring distance home.

May the fragrance
Of a breathing meadow
Refresh your heart
And remind you you are
A child of the earth

And when you partake
Of food and drink,
May your taste quicken
To the gift and sweetness
That flows from the earth.

May your inner eye
See through the surfaces
And glean the real presence
Of everything that meets you.

May your soul beautify
The desire of your eyes
That you might glimpse
The infinity that hides
In the simple sights
That seem worn
To your usual eyes.

By John O'Donohue

When you love,
May you feel the joy
Of your heart coming alive
As your lover's gaze
Lands on your eyes,
Holding them,
Like the weight of a kiss,
Deepening.

May the words of love
Reach you and fluster
Your held self,
The way a silhoutte of breeze
Excites a meadow.

When you are touched,
May it be the gentleness
You desire,
Your lover's hands sending
Each caress deep into your skin
Like a discovering glance.

May slow sequences
Of kisses discover
Your secret echoes.......

In the gaze of your lover,
May your see clearer
In the mirror
Of your own being.

May the silences
Be spaces where you
Can gather swiftly,
As ease with all
The subtle complexity.

May you be able to listen
To your lover's heartbeat
And think only of the joy
You can awaken.

May you be able
To let yourself fall
Into the ocean rhythm,
Unfolding ever more

Until you become
One crest of wave,
Rising into wild foam

Whose beauty will show
In the graceful sweep
Of its home-breaking.

By John O'Donohue

As stillness in stone to silence is wed,
May solitude foster your truth in word.

As a river flows in ideal sequence,
May your soul reveal where time is presence.

As the moon absolves the dark of distance,
May your style of thought bridge the difference.

As the breath of light awakens color,
May the dawn anoint your eyes with wonder.

As spring rain softens the earth with surprise,
May your winter places be kissed in light.

As the ocean dreams to the joy of dance,
May the grace of change bring you elegance.

As clay anchors a tree in light and wind,
May your outer life grow from peace within.

As twilight pervades the belief of night,
May beauty sleep lightly within your heart

Embracing her in my arms she is the world. I feel her breasts against my chest, and they are the soft flesh of everyone. Her breath on my neck is of the same wind breathed by a dying Swede or a swimming Polynesian. Her skin is made of atoms recycled from beetle, stone and rose. Her love is the same love residing in children in ancient Egypt and grandfathers in modern Tokyo. Holding her, I feel everyone, all beings. I am loving the world through her.

As I enter her, I am entering the world, giving love to the world. Her body becomes all bodies, even the earth itself. Soil, water, men and women I feel them all through her, and pervade them all through her. With each thrust, kiss and press, I offer all I have, give all I have to give, practice loving with every ounce of my being, through her, to all.

~ David Deida, Finding God Through Sex

As I stand in the living room, she jumps onto me and wraps her legs around my waist. She kisses me with a wet open mouth, her tongue searching for mine, as her hands grab my ass and pull me closer between her legs. She is grunting through the kisses, wanting me, begging me with her groan and hungry body.

For a moment I am lost in her energy. She is so beautiful and her desire makes me hot for her. Her wild energy gets me going, and momentarily I become her partner in lust, grinding against her, shoving my tongue through her teeth into her mouth, wanting to plunge myself more deeply into her.

But it is not enough. It feels empty. Shallow. Pure lust without depth is fun, but ultimately boring. I want her, no doubt about it. But I want her horny and deep, not just horny. And I want the same of myself. So I align my desire with consciousness.

I feel through her wet lips, my hardening erection, her silky moan. I feel through the heat of need, the wild energy that moves us against each other. My breath deepens. My face relaxes. My belly expands with power, and she feels it, as if my body has become one big phallus of consciousness from head to toes. She continues bucking against me as I become more rooted in open awareness.

Her energy begins to become aligned by my consciousness. She can feel that I am not lost in the energy, but stand full, free, and in love. I am not suppressing her energy or mine. I am still fully alive. Even more alive than before. More forceful in my sexual presence. But I am not swirled in her frenzy. Rather, her frenzy is penetrated by my consciousness. She seems to love it.

After a few minutes, I begin concentrating on my breath. I draw the inhale down my front, filling my belly, sinking my feet into the earth, and then exhale the force up our spines, so we both hover above in the space of wide light.

However she seems to sense that I have become too mechanical. Instead of being lost in her energy, I have become lost in my technique. So she moves her body against mine, bites my ear, and makes the most erotic sounds imaginable.

Her amplified expression of delight awakens me from my technical ardor. I realize that I have become ensconced in my narrowness of purpose. I have disembodied into the realm of goal and practice. I have forgotten love and pleasure. But now she has reminded me: consciousness without energy is boring to her. Dry. Rigid.

So, I relax my effortful technique and inhabit every cell of my body and hers. I feel into her. I submit to the openness of her love and embrace the energy of her pleasure. I breathe the force of consciousness into her and through her. In doing so, my heart is opened by the force of her sensually loving embodiment, and her heart is opened by the invasion of my unrelenting awareness.

By Kundan Chhabra Copyright 2008


Love is pure sweetness that ever flows and flows............

Peace is the emptiness of all form.......

Joy is the ecstasy when Love and Peace touch lips with each other..........

And then.....and then.....there is the nothingness that is full.......and it overflows......

When the Princess of That Which is Beyond Words comes to greet me, meet me,

How could I resists? I fall into Her Swirl, I am flung into the magic dusts of His Wand,

and I am no more........I just AM.......It Just is.......You Just are......

Enough! No More words!

I just

fall

Into

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"John asked me if you were my boyfriend."

I laughed. "He did?" We were on a volunteer trip, helping clear the trails from weeds for those people hiked the trails. John was the organizer of this trip whom we had met one time when we went hiking together......

"Ya. He was like, "Who is that guy? Is he your boyfriend? Are you together?"

I grinned again. "And what did you say?"

"I don't know. I felt very uncomfortable. So I just laughed."

I laughed........Interesting responses from people who have different model of love who when they see us are just very surprised.....

After a while, I just said, with a laugh, "It must be the hand-holding."

Another time, we helped a Mom and Daughter who had locked themselves out of their car. "He's cute. At first I thought you were married, and that he was your husband."

"Oh, he's just wonderful." She is just this pure sweetness.......It's just so nice to be with someone with whom I could be just love, this pure, sweet, tender, precious Love, who is also just this Love.......No romance........Just Love.....

"So, did you hold hands?"

I was not wise enough to respond to this question at the time in a wise manner.

Now, I'd say, "Why? Is that supposed to be some sort of milestone? Because, to me, it isn't. To me, it's just something that happens when two people who both understand Love are together....."

"And if someone asks, what does an angel's wing look like?.
Smile."

~ Rumi

:)

So, yes, wear an angel's wing on your lips, let Cupid's bow blow kisses, hug a lot, caress a lot, cuddle, and just recognize that you ARE me, and I AM You........since we are both Love.